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Conscious Kink

Create the D/s Dynamic Of Your Deviant Dreams

 

A 5-part self-guided course to imagine a power-exchange dynamic that fulfills all your filthy fantasies, supports self-care, and is durable to last as long as you need it to.

70 minutes of video / Lists Of Ideas / 48 Reflection & Discussion Questions
A One Stop Shop To Begin And Maintain Your D/s Dynamic


Let me guess.

You’re such an avid googler that “safe responsible BDSM + …” autofills every time you get near a search bar. 

You’ve tried to find your place on the apps. You’ve been scarred on Reddit and FetLife. 

You’ve read the blogs, and the old blogs, and the really old blogs (hello, Live Journal). 

You’ve read the e-books with absurdly long titles that were either so overly sexy they gave you no information at all or were written by guys who look just like George R. R. Martin and take just as long to reach a point.

And in all of that, you’ve been left wondering - is it even possible to have a 24/7 or TPE dynamic that makes sense in my life? 

“How do I build a structured relationship that works for me?”

Or maybe you haven’t done all that.

Maybe you’re brand new to this world, and looking for an approachable, friendly voice to cut through all the fantasy and the confusion and tell you why your kinks are a relationship superpower.

To tell you that BDSM isn’t just a lifestyle, but a structure for getting and keeping the exact relationship you want.

To tell you that the kink dynamic of your dreams is attainable and give you all the tools you need to customize it.

Maybe you’re already in a structured relationship, and you want to recapture the spark of your honeymoon phase.

Maybe you just really like specifics and long lists of examples that suit every kind of person.

Maybe you’re looking to accommodate openness and polyamory in your dynamic.

Or maybe you’re queer, trans, or a person of color, and feel traditional kink spaces and conversations have always forgotten you or signaled in their clumsy language choices that you weren’t welcome.

Whoever you are, you’re ready for a new presentation of kink. 

You’re ready to leave the clumsy behind.

You’re ready for…

 
 

So what do you get when you say yes to Conscious Kink, and YES to a fun, functional kink dynamic?

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5 Videos

1. Introduction and Mythbusting

2. Rules & Protocol

3.Punishment

4. Common Challenges Faced by D/s Couples

5. Why D/s Relationships are the Future

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2 PDFs

1. Course Syllabus with book recommendations, accounts to follow, and 23 pages of supplemental reading

2. Real dynamic stories from D/s couples

 
 

 You’ll get 5 videos, all narrated by me, walking you through everything you need to build and maintain your D/s dynamic.  

From myth-busting about 24/7 and TPE to exhaustive lists of rules and punishments, to a discussion of how privilege operates in power exchange, to strategies for using D/s to heal from codependence — it’s all in here. This course will support you as you start your dynamic, and, most importantly, maintain it over time.

Each chapter is between 10-20 minutes long and will lead you through targeted reflection questions for journaling and discussion.

Your course also comes with 2 PDF attachments.

First, is your Course Bibliography, with pages of links to books and articles for further research, Instagram accounts to follow who are teaching on important topics, and selected long-form pieces from my Patreon on topics from Domming while depressed, to rejecting white supremacy culture in your dynamic.

Your second PDF is filled with REAL stories from couples all over the world who are already living 24/7 or TPE dynamics. Because learning what other people are doing can be invaluable in realizing the full potential of what these dynamics can be.

Oh, and for the voyeurs out there - it’s straight-up fascinating.

From the sub in France whose Mistress makes him walk on all fours in their apartment, to the American nonbinary Dom who has created the most inventive protocols I’ve ever heard of, this PDF is chock-full of inspiration - and a whole gang of your new imaginary friends. 

Sometimes the hardest part about practicing D/s is figuring out where to start.

If you’ve been stumped, it’s not your fault!

Creativity can only happen with inspiration. 

When you sign up for this course, you’re going to be neck-deep in inspiration, and you’ll find yourself flourishing into the Dom or sub or chaotic switch partner you always knew was in there, even beyond the bedroom.

So what do you say? Are you ready to make an investment in joy? In waking up excited to live your custom-made, slutty little life?

 
 
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Chapter One

- Introduction

- 24/7 vs. TPE

- D/s MYTH vs. REALITY

- Reflection Questions & Goal-Setting



 
 
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Chapter Two: Rules & Protocol

- Negotiating Rules

- Setting Boundaries

- Addressing Privilege & Identity

- Difference Between Rules & Protocol

- 20+ Categories Of Rules & Protocol, with Examples

- Using Structure For Self-Care & Goal-Setting

 

 
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Chapter Three: Punishment

- All About Safe Punishment

- The Psychology Of Safe Punishment

- Punishment: The Antidote To Codependence?

- Safe Words

- 10+ Categories Of Punishments, each with examples


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Chapter Four: Your Long-Term Toolkit

- The 4 Common Problems D/s Dynamics Face

- Tips For Creative Communication

- Using D/s Structure For Conflict Resolution

- The “Fish In Water Effect” & Leveling Up A Dynamic That Has Plateaued


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Chapter Five: Why Structured Relationships are the Future

- My Manifesto On Why D/s Structure Is The Antidote To Many Common Relationship Pitfalls

- How D/s Counteracts Boredom & Loss Of Desire Over The Long Term

- A Word On Spiritual BDSM & Erotic Mindfulness

 
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Who am I?

I’m Lina Dune, a 24/7 sub and D/s relationship advice writer. But once upon a time, I was a D/s newbie. Back when I was starting my dynamic with my Dom, there were no resources out there that spoke to me. It was all old or written by and for Doms, or just presented in such an unattractive way it was impossible to take in. But beyond that, sure, a website could tell me all about high protocol, but no matter where I turned, I couldn’t seem to get any practical information about how this stuff makes people feel

How it supports communication between partners. 

How I, a regular girl with a full-time job, was going to fit into this seemingly magical world. 

So that’s why I created this space. This clean, cozy, inviting space for you to let your shoulders down and take a deep breath. Whether you’re a lifelong kinkster or a newbie. A goth kid or a jock with a dark side or a musical theater groupie who’s secretly into some freaky shit. Whether you’re in an existing relationship you’re turning kinky, a kinky relationship that’s turning serious, or if you’re planning ahead for the relationship you want to find — I made this course for you.

Your kinks are valid here. 

In fact, I think they’re fucking awesome.

And I’m really, really proud of you for embracing them.

Not just that - I think your kinks are your ticket to a healthy, satisfying relationship.

A relationship that roots out shame. A relationship that is durable to get through anything. A relationship that doesn’t drag you down, but is the wind beneath your wings as you grow into your happiest, most fulfilled self. Oh, and did I mention, a relationship that will protect against you and your partner turning into bickering siblings that don’t have sex anymore? Yeah.

TESTIMONIALS

It’s because of your page that I came back to the community and realized there’s a space for me
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Your course feels like you’re holding our hand and guiding us so we can fly!
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I recommend your course to everyone! Your approach is so wholesome and sweet and fun and empathetic and that’s who I am and how I approach kink too!
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My Dom and I are going through your course and he says he understands rules in a whole new way. I’m so glad this got through to him on a deeper level.
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I’m honestly crying - you are really out here helping everyone live how they want to live.
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